Humiliation play can, however, be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation.

While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, relatively little has been written on it. Humiliation can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations, it can also be easily carried out over a long distance (such as online). Select individuals who desire this form of humiliation also use it to acquire emotional release. A classic technique that can be used to put the submissive into a bottom mind space is to humiliate them while also providing them with sexual stimulation.

Some individuals assume an acting role and others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way. In another sense, the dominating person's words and actions are limited by the terms previously set by the submissive, so the submissive is actually controlling the interaction.Įrotic humiliation can be done verbally, physically, or both, and can be either private or public. Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being humiliated and dominance for the person implementing the humiliation. It does not need to be sexual in nature as with many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Humiliation is a subjective issue and is dependent on context. It may be part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of the genitals (or other erotic region) of one or both parties in the activity.

It is sometimes performed before spectators, including through pornography and webcam modeling. This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or both. Humiliation of a man being forced to kneel and hold a dominatrix's purse with his mouth while being caned at Folsom Street Fair in USA.Įrotic humiliation is consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal.

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